i tried to know someone by my own........

After a long gap, I would meet her again ,to give her some compliments, new year wishes (who knows-it may lead to endless talks ???????? ) & when the day is very near than ever, I am afraid to go ahead.
Friends !!!! Is it necessary to know someone before u talk to him/her .I found it very difficult to know someone by my own.
If someone loves children or is a BABYLOVER , does it mean her behaviour is childlike ......... innocent , pious & pure or does she want to be treated as a child...cared & loved.........but I think every child needs a "LAP".
If someone closes her eyes while LAUGHING.......does it mean she wants to hide her shyness & that too - without watching other's response (she looks amazing when she laughs).
If someone is passionate for DANCING, does it mean-she is cheerful & confident enough to face audience response as well as reaction ?
U may laugh at this, but If someone enjoys FLIRTING ...does it mean that she has been taught (may be) by her mother to talk & behave so generously with everyone around her. (& we guys call it flirting) ?
if someone has dreamt of CANDLELIGHT dinner, does it mean that she is too
romantic & wants to become blind & doesn't want to see anyone except that "fortunate" sitting right in front of her ?
I agree, Love should never be kept in a "solitary confinement".it must be
displayed and that too-publicly !!!! I haven't got any such opportunity but........I got
"vicarious" thrill as someone else portrays my love & affection in his own style. One can realize my pleasure in a better way, who finds himself in it's clutches as well. yeah!!!! "someone" who calls himself "UNDEFINED" but for me he is WELL-DEFINED". why I always trust on this great soul? bada simple hai ji..haule-haule hi sahi ....wo sabke dil pe "RAJ" karta hai ji...lekin maine to "RAB" se kuch aur bhi magna hai ji......... friends my perception may be wrong ....but tell me - what do U think?????????????

lo aa gayi lodi wee.. saja lo jodi wee...

The tag may be humorous,but i expect that someone should at least remember my name in a typical SRK style "naam to yaad hi hoga............" when we meet again.
Friends on the eve of "LOHRI" am here with a flood of questions which i can't answer,so listen to them carefully.one of my wellwishers regularly reminds me (more than enough) to...... work hard, read properly,prove yourself better than others.but does he know ,like any of my other friends there must be something for me to live for? yeah!!!! my "friends(having gf's)" , i asked so many questions about their first meeting...,about their happiest experiences..,how did they get trapped...&
they replied me excitingly "pankaj yaar",it was mere a chance of co-incidence".they discovered so many similarities such as like -dislike,opinion,hobbies.But i haven't found any such similarity Except (one nose,two eyes,precisely good height........) " Is it enough???????????? " they meet after regular intervals of time ,receptive of their ideas.But i hardly got a chance to give any compliment . "Why this b'day comes only once in a year?????????" they would have wept so much (may be entire life) if their respective 'gf's 'did not accept their "PROPOSAL".whereas I won't be able to stop my tears if she considers my "PLEA" . " Why am I so emotional?????????"
I may be so gregarious in front of you.But "why was I at a loss of words while talking to her for the first time???????????????"
& last but not the least i admire her in my dreams,in my fantacy & specially in my "RAB".but i won't remain an admirer.so friends "AM I OVERAMBITIOUS????????????????????????????????????"